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If you are married
If the mother is separated
If the mother is unmarried and you wish to have joint custody
Apply for joint custody AFTER your child is born
Apply for joint custody before your child is born
If the mother is unmarried - the mother wants sole custody
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If you are married
If you are married when your child is born, you will get joint custody automatically.
If the mother is separated
If you have been separated for more than 10 months before your child is born, the father/co-mother is not automatically registered.
If the separation has been annulled, you must notify the municipality so that they can cancel the registration of the legal separation in the CPR.
If the legal separation still applies you will be contacted by Familieretshuset (the Agency of Family Law) for further guidance.
If the mother is unmarried and you wish to have joint custody
Apply for joint custody AFTER your child is born
If the mother is unmarried when the child is born, the mother has sole custody. If the parents want to have joint custody, a 'Declaration of Care and Parental Responsibility' (Omsorgs- og ansvarserklæring) must be completed within 28 days after the birth. If you complete the declaration online after birth (but within 28 days after birth), it is automatically forwarded to the registrar (the mother's parish of residence or if the child is born in the Southern part of Jutland – to the municipality of residence).
If you complete 'the Declaration of Care and Parental Responsibility' on paper, you must deliver it yourself to your registrar.
> Find your registrar
> Complete 'the Declaration of Care and Parental Responsibility' online on borger.dk (in Danish only)
> Download 'the Declaration of Care and Parental Responsibility' on paper (in Danish only)
Apply for joint custody before your child is born
You can also complete the 'Declaration of Care and Parental Responsibility' before your child is born. The online declaration is automatically forwarded to Familieretshuset (the Agency of Family Law), who will then send their response to your Digital Post whereas the declaration on paper must be delivered by yourself to your registrar.
Please note: Paternity/co-motherhood cannot be registered in the CPR until after the child is born since this requires the child to have a civil registration number. You must deliver the confirmation you have received from Familieretshuset to the registrar within 28 days after the birth of the child
> Find your registrar
> Complete 'the Declaration of Care and Parental Responsibility' online on borger.dk (in Danish only)
> Download 'the Declaration of Care and Parental Responsibility' on paper (in Danish only)
If the mother is unmarried - the mother wants sole custody
If the mother is unmarried, and you do not want joint custody, the father/co-mother must still be registered and you will be contacted by Familieretshuset (the Agency of Family Law).
> Read more about acknowledgement of paternity/co-motherhood on borger.dk (in Danish only)
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